It's a balancing act, not perfection
, October 18, 2012
There was a commercial for a perfume, Enjoli, that I remember seeing a lot when I was growing up. It had a memorable jingle. As a beautiful woman walked towards the camera, she morphed from being dressed in a business suit to everyday shirt with a skillet to slinky dress.
Not quite the field of dreams
, October 3, 2012
I’m on a kickball team this fall. It’s lots of fun and I’m amazed at how popular this is in DC. In my league alone, there are nearly 600 players. There are leagues all around town who all play games on different days. In short, kickball in Washington is HUGE.
, September 26, 2012
These glorious, cooler first days of fall always feel like such a relief. A re-leaf! I always feel energized as the season begins. It’s wonderful to sleep with the windows open again and have the crisp air filling your lungs as you awaken.
Sticks, Stones, Words
, September 21, 2012
You know the old phrase and you yourself may have said it on the playground, “Sticks and stones may break my bones but names can never hurt me.” Yet we also know that words do hurt when used in misguided ways, both on the playground and in the wider world. Words do hurt and can cause destruction, as we have been seeing across north Africa, the Arabian peninsula, and the Islamic world.
, September 12, 2012
This week we observed the 11th anniversary of the 9/11 attack on our country. I recently officiated at the Pentagon’s weekly service for Episcopalians and their colleagues.
The Sacred and the Beautiful
, September 5, 2012
September 5 marks the three-year anniversary of the death of one of my most beloved teachers, David R. Davidson. David left this world far too soon due to cancer.
Winnie Varghese’s Article, Take Two
, August 29, 2012
At the end of July, I wrote a blog that featured an essay about the Episcopal Church written by the Rev. Winnie Varghese. In the barrage of disparaging opinion pieces that proliferated following General Convention, I found Varghese’s words to articulate an accurate and affirming picture of the Episcopal Church that I know and love. In one paragraph however, she quotes Bobby Castle who says in essence the ones who disagree with the direction the church is moving and have left “are the ones that should go.”
Off To College
, August 15, 2012
Much has been made of the value of college education. Some believe it is unnecessary and after all we need plenty of backbone to do the unskilled and semi-skilled jobs that make the world go ‘round. Others warn that without a college education, you may be jeopardizing your future for a good salary and benefits. In between are those who claim that a four-year college degree is bound to disappoint because jobs will not be there or jobs that are fulfilling will be scarce. Still others believe that those who cannot afford college should be paid a living wage. Some remedies that are offered include scaling back what universities do, for instance, research libraries and the removal of philosophy departments because they are unprofitable and too costly to be provided for all students. I wince at the idea since that is where I spent most of my time in college.
, August 8, 2012
I have just returned from a wonderful week at the Royal School of Church Music (RSCM) summer course in Newport, Rhode Island. Every year, the RSCM sponsors several camps in different locations around the country. It’s a week of intensive singing and preparation for services. The Newport course was amazingly successful. With over 100 participants (mostly children – treble voices), the sound was thrilling and finely polished. It was a delight to have some of our own choristers present and participating.
, July 25, 2012
A more reasonable person would have already written their blog post before going on vacation. But this still reasonable person was busy at full tilt before going away on vacation, and so this did not get done until on vacation. My husband and I have tried really hard to be fully on vacation and to not be working at work things. Like many of you, both of us have work that does not stay neatly in the 9 to 5 work world (or even in the 8 to 6 work world!). So, when we can really be away, it is good for all of us -- each of us as individuals, the two of us as a couple and as parents, and the four of us as a family.