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It's a balancing act, not perfection

Posted by Heather, October 18, 2012

There was a commercial for a perfume, Enjoli, that I remember seeing a lot when I was growing up. It had a memorable jingle. As a beautiful woman walked towards the camera, she morphed from being dressed in a business suit to everyday shirt with a skillet to slinky dress.

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Sticks, Stones, Words

Posted by Heather, September 21, 2012

You know the old phrase and you yourself may have said it on the playground, “Sticks and stones may break my bones but names can never hurt me.” Yet we also know that words do hurt when used in misguided ways, both on the playground and in the wider world. Words do hurt and can cause destruction, as we have been seeing across north Africa, the Arabian peninsula, and the Islamic world.

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Sunday into Monday and Beyond

Posted by Heather, August 23, 2012

There are many blues and country-western songs that reference the dichotomy between what you do on those wild weekend nights and what you do on Sunday morning. Lyle Lovett sings “You went to church on Sunday” to which the backup chorus hums in agreement, then sings, “ You got drunk the night before,” and the chorus moans in agreement. You can imagine the chorus shaking their heads. Now, I’m not so worried about folks going beyond the pale on Friday and Saturday nights. I am sure that it happens now and then and it is important to address in your life if you are partying too much. But for me, the bigger question is how does Sunday stick around into Monday and beyond?

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Sabbath Time

Posted by Heather, July 25, 2012

A more reasonable person would have already written their blog post before going on vacation. But this still reasonable person was busy at full tilt before going away on vacation, and so this did not get done until on vacation. My husband and I have tried really hard to be fully on vacation and to not be working at work things. Like many of you, both of us have work that does not stay neatly in the 9 to 5 work world (or even in the 8 to 6 work world!). So, when we can really be away, it is good for all of us -- each of us as individuals, the two of us as a couple and as parents, and the four of us as a family.

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God’s eye is on the guinea pig, as well as the sparrow

Posted by Heather, June 29, 2012

We have had a fair amount of extra drama in our house this week. After about a year and a third of delay for various reasons, we adopted a dog on Sunday afternoon. Midnight is her name and she is about five years old. My husband and girls are really excited and I’m coming along. (I think I have a sense of the work that a dog requires and a healthy fear that I will become the primary caregiver for the dog. But I am excited too.) We have had a guinea pig, Bella, for six months now. She was our starter pet, in a way, to make sure that everyone would participate in the care for a pet, even the not so fun care such as cleaning a cage.

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Taking the Bible Challenge

Posted by Heather, May 12, 2012

I know this won't surprise you. There are a lot of bibles in my house. We have study bibles, bibles in Greek (both of ours) and Hebrew (David's), old family bibles, and a few art bibles, one with medieval artwork in it and one with modern art and medieval-style hand calligraphy. We have a variety of translations, from the King James Version to the NRSV (that's what we read from in church) to a new translation, the Common English Bible, that is meant to be scholarly and contemporary to American English idioms as they are in the 21st century so far. We also regularly use online versions of the Bible, such as at bible.oremus.org, and David has a free Bible app on his phone. But most of the time if there is a Bible being read in our house, one of our daughters is reading it.

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Lessons Learned from Our Chidren

Posted by Heather, February 28, 2012

On Maundy Thursday, I was surprised by the reaction of my daughters to the end of the worship service. Similar to many Episcopal churches, Christ Church does a stripping of the altar. The communion ware is removed to the sacristy, as are the altar book, frontal hanging of the altar, and a few kneelers. The stoles that the clergy wear are removed and given up. Even the cross, which sits on the altar at Christ Church, is removed. My daughters were really disturbed by this. I could see them in the front pew, mouthing to me "What is going on? Why are they doing this? Why are they taking away the church things?" At the same time as trying to kneel and pray myself, I was mouthing back to them, "It is all okay. Everything is fine. We will talk about it later."

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